While I’m in the mood to embarrass myself, here’s another story (roughly number 45 in an ongoing series, probably). The act of rubbing against the body of another person, as in a crowd, to attain sexual gratification. But, remaining in a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend is not going to resolve his issues, and that you both can move on with your lives because you both deserve to be with someone who loves you both without any lies or games.N. And, if he needs someone to talk to you, and if you’re willing to be a friend, let him know he can come to you anytime. Let him know that he is loved, and that he is one of God’s children. Let him know that his family, and friends who truly love him will always love him regardless.
He shouldn’t have to hide or be afraid of being his true authentic self. I suggest that you sit with him, and in a loving tone you point it all out to him, and let him know that it’s okay to be who he is. His behaviors, and his actions are that of a homosexual man, and he may be in denial about it, but that doesn’t negate the fact that he is using you and lying to you about it. He ain’t fooling nobody, but you! LOL! I find it sad and unfortunate that he is using you and not being honest with you and himself. It’s time to call him out, and stop the damn charade. I can’t stop laughing because you stated that when you and your boyfriend do something the best friend comes along or gets an invite. They are in a relationship and you are the odd ball out. You can sit over there and be in denial all you want, but your man and his so-called “best friend” are boyfriends. How could he justify this? What could he possible say to you to make you think anything other than he was a flaming homosexual who is using you as some type of guise, or trying to prove his own manhood to lawd knows who? There would be no need for further communication, assessment, or explanation. But, err, uhm, sweetie, as soon as you heard this you should have politely stood up, gathered your things, and walked out the door. So, why are you excusing your man for it? I’ll wait while you ponder that.ģ.) Your man admitted to you that he has showered with his best friend and they’ve had sword fights with their penis’s (In the gay world that’s called, “grinding”). You know in your rational mind that any man who admits to touching another man’s penis has either got to be gay or bi-sexual. I ask you, why? Why would he touch another man’s penis? Do you go around touching other women’s vaginas? Let’s say this – If he wasn’t your man, and he was someone you knew in passing and he admitted to touching another man’s penis, what would you think of him? You would think he’s gay, wouldn’t you? You wouldn’t question it or doubt it. Can you imagine walking in your neighborhood and you see some grown men joking around grabbing for each other’s packages? What would you think if you saw that?Ģ.) Your man admitted to you that he’s touched another man’s penis. Hmmmm, I don’t know any straight man who would joke around and grab for another man’s package. Here are some pretty obvious things that your “boyfriend” has said to you:ġ.) He and his friends joke around and grab each other and touch places that shouldn’t be touched. I’m going to help you to the light, Carol Anne, because you are stuck in the Poltergeist. You’re not that naïve are you? Please, lawd, I hope the retardation gene is not contagious upon reading, touching, or hearing asinine dumb bull-ish like this. He’s admitted to you about his preference in so many words and yet, you’re still in this relationship despite your own gut feelings telling you that he is gay! Come on, honey. Girl, if you can’t see the writing on the wall, then I can’t help you. In the infamous words of television personality Wendy Williams, “How you doin’?” LMBAO! And, another thing, he always seems to mention or announce that he’s comfortable with his sexuality. I don’t know if it’s because they haven’t seen each other in a long time and that he’s making up for it.
All I know is that he seems like he worships the ground he walks on. My boyfriend has told me that he and this friend have been real close in the past and that they have showered together, and he mentioned they’ve had sword fights with their privates. He would rather go hang out with him than see me, or we’d do something and his friend comes along or at least he gets an invite. He recently ran into an old best friend he had when he was a kid, and now they are glued to the hip. He’s freely admitted that he’s touched another man’s penis and seemed proud of it. When he’s with his guy friends they joke around and grab each other, and sometimes they touch places that shouldn’t be touched. He does have a small group of male friends which I have meet and all hung out.